This website is created for people who feel that life seems to function on the surface, yet intuitively sense that something could be different. There is a quiet inner knowing that the familiar way forward no longer truly carries you. Decisions begin to ask for more clarity and presence — not more speed, new roles, or external achievements.

Understanding and attitude

At the center of my work is the person and their inner state — how someone truly feels within, and how that inner condition shapes their choices, relationships, and daily life. I am interested in that in-between place where life appears to work, yet something inside is beginning to change. Not as a problem, but as a sign that it may be time to look at yourself more honestly.

Experience before theory

My understanding has not grown from teaching or ready-made answers, but from lived experience. Years among people — both as a leader and as a team member — have shown me how directly a person’s inner state influences their decisions, communication, and sense of security. In demanding situations, it is not only knowledge or rules that guide outcomes, but how present and clear a person is within themselves.

Not for fixing — but for clarity

This website does not offer quick solutions or ready answers. It is not here to fix people or instruct them how to live “the right way.” It is a space for clarity, calm self-reflection, and more conscious presence. Often, life does not need to be rebuilt — it is enough when a person begins to truly listen to themselves.

Inner state creates change

Change does not always begin with what a person does, but with the state they are in. When the inner state becomes clearer, decisions, relationships, and actions begin to take shape differently in a natural way. Often, it is not necessary to push harder — it is enough to allow yourself to be honest and present.

Background and path

My name is Tõnu Põldma. I was born on September 19, 1985, in Viljandi County, Estonia.

My educational path has taken me from local schools to law studies at the University of Tartu Institute of Law and Nord Private Academy, and later to business studies at Estonian Entrepreneurship University of Applied Sciences (Mainor). I do not hold a formal higher education degree, but I have taken from each program what has been genuinely useful for my path.

I also consider real-life experience to be one of the greatest teachers. Reflection, lived situations, and practical responsibility have shaped my understanding more than formal theory alone.